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The Only Battle for Lovers to Have

There is only one fight that ought to be fought between lovers. The one that keeps you up all night, duelling to victory.  The battle is over who finishes last. Not first; last. The last person to...

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The Sex Before the Sex

I’m into mindf**king. I like to be penetrated long before any physical contact takes place. In fact, I need to be. Witty banter, teasing, verbal double entendres—all foreplay for me. The people I am...

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I Know What You Want

You want love. I want love too. Underneath everything we do is the desire to be loved. And to love. Ideally, it permeates all of your words and actions, this sprinkling of love. Whether you are asking...

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When your partner is not sexually open

“How do you incorporate a healthy, sensual, sex life into a relationship with a man who is more inhibited by the typical, hush hush, slightly dirty, western views of sex, when you are a highly sexual,...

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The Ecstasy of Being Broken

When I’m explaining the idea of getting over the edge in orgasm, particularly with deeper, vaginal orgasms, or profound heart/genital-gasms, there is a sense of needing to break. To break apart. To...

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Can a Strong Vagina Keep You From Getting Botox?

Your vaginal superpowers are many. I’ve talked about vaginas that can save lives. And vagina dentata. We all know that vaginas can give life too. Besides birthing children, the vagina and uterus also...

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Please just f**k the shit out of your girlfriend instead

I was at Whole Foods yesterday and there was a special flower stand set up in the parking lot. It was crammed with poor schmucks who were in a frenzy to purchase their very special Valentine’s Day gift...

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The Price of Love

One of the stories people get told about relationships is that the “honeymoon” period doesn’t last. It’s a temporary high, fueled by hormones and neurotransmitters. It’s just a story though. Love is a...

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In Love and Orgasm We Trust

I came across this list years ago. It feels like one of these cosmic, secret-channeled things that you are lucky enough to stumble upon and absorb its wisdom. My favourite of all the rules, the one...

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How to F**k Your Partner from Across the Room (or Continent)

People are always asking me how to manage long-distance relationships, or times of separation within a relationship. Easy. Keep having sex.  You don’t have to stop just because you aren’t physically...

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Does the G-Spot exist?

Definitely. Yet another scientific study recently emerged, casting doubt on the existence of the female G-Spot. Since I found mine and have enjoyed it for years, I typically don’t pay attention to such...

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The Multi-Orgasmic Woman

As promised, here is my article in the March 2010 edition of Playboy. It happens to appear in the most widely talked about issue of Playboy in ages – thank you, John C. Mayer. I discuss the three types...

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The Sexual Savant Salons

The Sexual Savant Salons are a series of hedonistic and informative evenings presented by experts well-versed in the sensual arts. Imagine a beautifully appointed salon lit by candlelight, soft music...

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How to be an Amazing Lover

How do you become amazing at anything? Commit. Study. Practice. Even though we live in a sex-obsessed culture, we’re not encouraged to openly explore our sexual selves. Most people need to fight the...

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The Art of Pleasuring a Man

In the Sexual Savant Salons, the idea is to inspire people to prioritize sex in their lives. Giving people a compendium of techniques is useless if they aren’t willing to use them. So first, inspire....

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"The Crow"

“The sexual posture known as “The Crow” or “69” is, according to Tantra, most effective for mutual subtle nourishment, energy circulation and exchange. It has a potentizing effect on the sexual center...

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Sophisticated sex as a portal to bliss

“I think sex should be one of the main places where we can be ourselves completely, nakedly, and vulnerably,” she said. “It’s where we allow the parts of ourselves that don’t come out in day-to-day...

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Erotic Couture

There is a world-wide trend toward erotic luxury and more intelligent sex. Perhaps it’s a post-porn backlash – a response to content that is largely devoid of authenticity and aesthetic value. In the...

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The World Record for Vaginal Weight Lifting is????

How can you get a super-powered, self-actualized and world-famous vagina? If you’ve read my Playboy article, then you know the Guinness World Record for vaginal weight lifting is 31 pounds. Tatiata...

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The Sex Date

I was on Breakfast Television last week and we touched on the sex date. Most people have heard about “date night” for couples: setting aside an evening that’s just for the two of you. I take it a step...

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